REWIRE HABITS
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Watch the 10 minute video above about
HOW to build any new Habit.
What you will take away
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Small steps beat big goals.
A step so easy you can't say no to it is one you'll actually repeat.
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Repetition builds the path
Every time you repeat something, your brain makes that route a little
easier to take.
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You can steer it
Pick the cue, pick the step, and let the compounding work for you instead of against you.
How to Build a Brain Habit (In 3 Steps)
Ever tried to build a new habit and given up after a few days? That's normal. Your brain isn't lazy, it's just wired to resist change because change feels risky. The good news: once you know how your brain actually forms habits, you can work with it instead of against it. Here's the 3-step plan.
Step 1: Get Ready
Before you start, your brain needs a reason.
Ask yourself: why do I actually want this habit? Not because someone told you to, but because it matters to you. Then picture what your life looks like once this habit is just... normal. That mental picture is fuel for when it gets hard.
Step 2: Rewire
Don't try to change everything at once, that's how habits die. Instead, build your habit using three tiny pieces, called PAR:
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Prompt - a cue that reminds you to do the habit (like "right after I brush my teeth").
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Action - the habit itself, kept small and easy.
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Reward - something you do immediately after, like a smile or a quick "yes!", that tells your brain "that felt good, let's do it again".
Small + repeatable + rewarded = a habit your brain actually keeps.
Step 3: Repeat
Do it daily for 30 days. Repetition is what wires the habit into your brain so it stops taking willpower and starts happening automatically. Track it if you can, and celebrate every small win along the way, that celebration is part of what makes it stick.
Example Brain Habits to Try
(Critical Thinking & Bias Edition)
Spot the Bias in Your Feed
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Prompt: Right when you open your first social media app of the day.
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Action: When you see the first post that activates your interest, ask:
"Who benefits if I believe this", “Am I being gamed”, “Is this true”?
Go to check the accuracy of the information or claim. -
Reward: Say: "I am in control of my thinking, and I get to choose my response."
Do it for 30 days. That's how a real brain habit gets built.
As outlined in the video, this is a plan for ANY new habit.
Here are some simple Habit ideas for you to try.
1. Pause Before You Share
Before sharing a post, pause for 10 seconds and ask: Where did this come from?
2. Question One Assumption
Once a day, notice something you assumed was true and ask: What evidence do I actually have?
3. Read the Other Side
Occasionally find a thoughtful viewpoint that disagrees with something you believe. Read it to understand, not necessarily to agree.
4. Three-Breath Check
Before responding to something that makes you angry or emotional, take three breaths. Then decide whether you still want to respond.
5. Add Light, Not Heat
Before commenting, ask: Am I adding useful information or just adding more emotion?
6. Neutralize the Headline
When you see a dramatic or inflammatory headline, mentally rewrite it in calm, neutral language.
7. The Two-Minute Scroll Audit
While scrolling, occasionally stop and ask: Why am I still here? Did I choose to keep scrolling, or did the algorithm choose for me?
8. Check Before You Believe
When something online immediately feels true, especially because you agree with it, check the source before accepting it.
9. Notice the Emotional Hook
When something makes you angry, frightened, outraged, or extremely excited, recognize the emotion before reacting to the information.
10. Look for What's Missing
Ask: What information would I need to know before I could really judge this?
